When to Fold ‘Em
Ah, the great problem of knowing when to bow out of something gracefully. It can be a hard realization to come to, the lesson hard learned. Playing the game, win or lose, that doesn’t matter. Sometimes having to end the game, step out of it, is the most important action to take. Being a graceful winner or loser is all well and good, but bowing out when you need to takes true courage. Fighting for what you want isn’t always the way to go, pummeling yourself to seek victory can be exhausting and futile. Finding other dreams and hopes to seek, fight for, desire, that doesn’t make someone a coward, changing the game isn’t wrong. That game you lose at can teach you to win in another, be better in another, and hopefully win in that one. If that lesson can be taken from leaving, it is worth it. Strength in the fight and battle can come from different places, and different tactics. Cowardice and fear are not proud emotions to own up to, but they can teach and steer you in the right direction, if you can be open to seeing what can be taken from them.
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