Haters Gonna Hate
As the expression goes, haters gonna hate. Funny thing is I realize my worst critic; where the absolute harshest criticism comes from, is from me. I find that when it comes to a harsh critique, no one tops what I have to say. Feeling the need to judge myself, I analyze and scrutinize for no good reason, it just comes naturally. I have to think others are judging themselves as well, so they don’t really have time to judge me, and why do I bother worrying so much. Overcoming that mindset takes determination and some strong will for sure, I have been doing it for so many years. It is a negative process that doesn’t do any good in the long run. Judging ourselves turns in to a harmful process when we allow the negative and bad overwhelm and take center stage. Finding a new thought process and a new way to approach that impulse is key to finding a way out of that harmful self-critical mode. So, this hater isn’t gonna hate anymore, or at least try not to :0)
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Posted on 10/15/2012, in Deep Thoughts, Life Bits and tagged Life Bits. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.
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